I Love You But I m Not In Love With You

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9781783018178
Release Date: 2015-10-20
Genre: Family & Relationships

If your relationship with your significant other is defined more by companionship than passion... if you love each other deeply but are not deeply in love... if you feel that something's missing or is no longer there... then you could be experiencing ILYB (I Love You, But...). In 'I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You' couple's counsellor Andrew G. Marshall draws on twenty years of experience to help couples who have 'fallen out of love' or want to rekindle the love that once was to learn how to use Marshall's program with impressive results.

Are You Right For Me

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing
ISBN: 9781408811009
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

In the movies, a couple meet and they just know that each has found that one special person. Marriage, children and eternal bliss are just a heart-beat away. Unfortunately in the real world, it is much harder to work out if a relationship has a future or not. Most people do not have these blinding flashes or if they've had them in the past, have been badly let down and no longer trust their own judgement. If this sounds familiar and you're not sure if your relationship is serious or you're just wasting your time, this book is for you. Marital therapist Andrew G Marshall draws on extensive research and twenty-five years' experience of working with couples to help you understand what is going on beneath the surface. He explains: - How to tell if your partner is truly into you. - How to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. - The natural rhythm of relationships and how both jumping in too soon or spending too long on hold can ruin a budding romance. - How to stop listening to other people and listen to your heart. - How to talk productively about your future. (Some of the exercises in this book have appeared in The Single Trap by Andrew G. Marshall, published by Bloomsbury)

Build a Life long Love Affair

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing
ISBN: 9781408810996
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

We give our car or boiler regular services because these are things that we rely on and know it is better to fix minor glitches than wait until they become major problems. However when it comes to something as important as our relationship, we tend to close our eyes and hope for the best. In this practical book, Marital therapist Andrew G Marshall draws on twenty-five years of counselling couples to design a programme that gives your relationship the once over, tightens up any niggling problems and keeps it running smoothly. - Discover the six stages of love and their particular challenges and rewards. - Learn how to speak each other's special love language. - Boost real intimacy and keep passion alive. - Discover how small changes can have a truly big impact. - Test how many of the six skills of successful couples that you and your partner possess. (This book is based on I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You by Andrew G. Marshall, published by Bloomsbury)

Resolve Your Differences

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: A&C Black
ISBN: 9781408811030
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

Do you have arguments that go round and round in circles? Do you and your partner keep picking at each other over stupid things? Can things turn nasty when you disagree? Despite all the falling out, making up and promises to try harder, do you find that nothing really changes? If all this sounds familiar, it is time for a fresh approach. In this down-to-earth book, marital therapist Andrew G Marshall draws on twenty-five years of counselling couples to explain how to deal with conflict and find lasting solutions. Discover: - Why avoiding arguments stores up long-term problems. - What really drives those petty squabbles. - How to stop things spiralling out of control. - Five useful things to argue about. - The tools to have productive and positives disagreements. - How to learn and move on.

Learn to Love Yourself Enough

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9780957429758
Release Date: 2014-09-09
Genre: Self-Help

Create a wealth of self-worth. In a black-and-white world, there are two types of people—those who love themselves too much (and walk over everybody else) or hate themselves for failing to achieve goals (and probably end up being taken advantage of by others). But, according to British marital therapist, Andrew G. Marshall, neither has a healthy perception of oneself. This is because the secret to self-esteem does not lie in the extremes of love and hate, but in the middle, in the gray area that teaches us to love ourselves just enough: enough to have love to offer others; enough to be open to receive love from others. Only when this kind of balance is created, can self-love exist. Like no other book on self-esteem ever written, Learn to Love Yourself Enough helps readers walk through life on middle ground by revealing the seven factors that, together, add up to a wealth of self-worth. Examine your relationship with your parents: Discover the six types of child-parent relationships and how to accept the legacy of your past. Find Forgiveness: Debunk the two myths about forgiveness and discover what can be gained from negative experiences. Don't let other people put you down: Recognize the five phases of projection and how understanding our own projections lead to better and happy relationships. Re-program your inner voice: Identify the three kinds of negative thinking that work together to undermine self-confidence and whether they are based on fact or just opinion. Set realistic goals: Learn how perfectionism undermines self-esteem. Re-balance yourself: Understand that problems lurk in the extremes and why the middle way is the most successful way. Conquer Fears and Setbacks: Overcome the day-to-day problems that life and other people throw at us.

My Wife Doesn t Love Me Any More

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9781783014965
Release Date: 2012-11-16
Genre: Family & Relationships

Your wife has not only fallen out of love but, worse still, she is refusing point blank to try and fix things. She says 'she can't change her feelings', she needs 'space' and the children should know – even though it will break their hearts. You've told her how much you love her, you've begged for a second chance but everything is falling on deaf ears. The situation might seem bleak but help is at hand. Marital therapist, Andrew G Marshall has spent over twenty-five years helping couples find love again and he has a message of HOPE. You can help your wife to fall back in love, even if you're separated or suspect there's another man in the background. In this practical book, he explains: • The six worst and the six best reactions to discovering your wife doesn't love you any more. • How to get to the bottom of why she's fallen out of love. • Five things you think will save your marriage but are just pushing your wife further away. • Five strategies to instantly improve the atmosphere at home. • How to keep going in the face of disinterest and rejection. • Why most men give up too soon. • How to know when to accept the inevitable and when to keep trying.

To all the boys I ve loved before

Author: Jenny Han
Publisher: Carl Hanser Verlag GmbH Co KG
ISBN: 9783446254350
Release Date: 2016-07-25
Genre: Juvenile Fiction

Lara Jeans Liebesleben verlief bisher eher unauffällig. Nicht, dass es ihr an Herz oder Fantasie mangelte. Im Gegenteil, Liebeskummer hatte sie schon oft, und unsterblich verliebt war sie auch schon. Einmal sogar in den Freund ihrer großen Schwester. Klar, dass sie das keinem anvertrauen kann. Außer ihrer Hutschachtel. Denn um sich ihrer Gefühle klar zu werden, schreibt Lara Jean jedes Mal einen Abschieds-Liebesbrief, in dem sie so richtig ihr Herz ausschüttet, und legt ihn dort hinein. Diese fünf Briefe sind ein streng gehütetes Geheimnis. Bis zu dem Tag, an dem auf mysteriöse Weise jeder Brief seinen Empfänger erreicht und Lara Jeans rein imaginäres Liebesleben völlig außer Kontrolle gerät ...

All for You Sehnsucht

Author: Meredith Wild
Publisher: BASTEI LÜBBE
ISBN: 9783736306295
Release Date: 2017-10-26
Genre: Fiction

Du bist alles für mich - das Gute, das Schlechte und jeder einzelne Augenblick dazwischen Als Maya Jacobs und Cameron Bridge sich nach fünf Jahren zum ersten Mal wieder begegnen, ist es, als ob die Welt um sie herum zum Stillstand kommt. Damals waren sie ein Paar gewesen, verliebt und so glücklich. Aber als Cameron um Mayas Hand anhielt, musste sie die schwerste Entscheidung ihres Lebens treffen - und Nein sagen. Als sie sich jetzt erneut gegenüberstehen, sind die Gefühle von damals augenblicklich wieder da. Und auch die Leidenschaft. Doch kann es für ihre Liebe eine zweite Chance geben, wenn ihre gemeinsame Vergangenheit so voller Schmerz ist? Nach HARD - die neue Reihe von Spiegel-Bestseller-Autorin Meredith Wild!

Die subtile Kunst des darauf Schei ens

Author: Mark Manson
Publisher: MVG Verlag
ISBN: 9783961210596
Release Date: 2017-05-08
Genre: Self-Help

Scheiß auf positives Denken sagt Mark Manson. Die ungeschönte Perspektive ist ihm lieber. Wenn etwas scheiße ist, dann ist es das eben. Und wenn man etwas nicht kann, dann sollte man dazu stehen. Nicht jeder kann in allem außergewöhnlich sein und das ist gut so. Wenn man seine Grenzen akzeptiert, findet man die Stärke, die man braucht. Denn es gibt so viele Dinge, auf die man im Gegenzug scheißen kann. Man muss nur herausfinden, welche das sind und wie man sie sich richtig am Arsch vorbeigehen lässt. So kann man sich dann auf die eigenen Stärken und die wichtigen Dinge besinnen und hat mehr Zeit, sein Potential gänzlich auszuschöpfen. Die subtile Kunst des darauf Scheißens verbindet unterhaltsame Geschichten und schonungslosen Humor mit hilfreichen Tipps für ein entspannteres und besseres Leben. Damit man seine Energie für sinnvolleres verwendet als für Dinge, die einem egal sein können.

Heal and Move On

Author: Andrew Marshall
Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.
ISBN: 9780995540361
Release Date: 2018-09-04
Genre: Family & Relationships

Whether your partner left, or it's you who has decided to the end the relationship, breaking up is painful, difficult and sometimes overwhelming. Friends and family urge you to forget the past and reach for the future but it is never that simple. Before you can move on you need to understand what went wrong, mourn the loss, and most importantly, heal. Otherwise you risk taking all the problems from your current relationship into the next one. In this compassionate book, marital therapist Andrew G. Marshall brings thirty plus years experience working with couples to explain how to recover from a break-up the healthy way. Whether you are the leaver (the person who has initiated the split) or the sticker (who has been questioning whether this is the right choice), he covers: Knowing when to stop trying and accept the inevitable Emotional first aid to make it through tough times What helps and what hinders recovery Making sense of your break-up Helping your children cope How to fly high again

Muss es denn gleich f r immer sein

Author: Sophie Kinsella
Publisher: Goldmann Verlag
ISBN: 9783641226077
Release Date: 2018-07-16
Genre: Fiction

Sylvie und Dan sind seit zehn Jahren zusammen. Sie führen eine glückliche Ehe, haben zwei Kinder, ein hübsches Zuhause und wissen stets, was der andere denkt. Beim jährlichen Check-up-Termin prognostiziert ihr Hausarzt außerdem hocherfreut: Beide sind so kerngesund, dass sie sich bestimmt noch auf 68 gemeinsame Jahre freuen können. Erfreulich? Sylvie und Dan packt die blanke Panik. Wie zum Kuckuck sollen sie diese Ewigkeit überstehen, ohne einander zu langweilen? Sie beschließen, sich gegenseitig im Alltag zu überraschen. Doch das ist leichter gesagt als getan ...

How Can I Ever Trust You Again

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.
ISBN: 9780992971861
Release Date: 2016-03-01
Genre: Self-Help

There are few things in life more traumatic than discovering that your partner is having an affair. You are not only coping with the pain and anger but also the sense that your partner is a stranger. How could someone you love, and thought that you knew, treat you like this? How can you ever trust your partner again? Don't panic. Millions of ordinary men and women have trodden the same path and come out the other end with not only their love restored but a significantly stronger and better relationship. Whether you are the discoverer of the affair or whether you were discovered, Marshall offers guidance and support, and explains: The seven stages that couples move through from discovery to recovery. What makes people more vulnerable to affairs. The eight types of infidelity and how understanding your partner's affair is key to deciding whether you should stay or go. How to stop your imagination running wild and your brain from going into meltdown. Why some couples emerge stronger and why others get derailed from the recovery process. With over thirty years' experience as a marital therapist, Marshall draws on hundreds of case studies and provides practical, compassionate and sensible advice to keep your relationship alive. As he says, "It might sound strange, but you can turn this crisis from the worst thing that has happened to your relationship into one of the best.