I Love You But I m Not In Love With You

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9781783018178
Release Date: 2015-10-20
Genre: Family & Relationships

If your relationship with your significant other is defined more by companionship than passion... if you love each other deeply but are not deeply in love... if you feel that something's missing or is no longer there... then you could be experiencing ILYB (I Love You, But...). In 'I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You' couple's counsellor Andrew G. Marshall draws on twenty years of experience to help couples who have 'fallen out of love' or want to rekindle the love that once was to learn how to use Marshall's program with impressive results.

Are You Right For Me

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing
ISBN: 9781408811009
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

In the movies, a couple meet and they just know that each has found that one special person. Marriage, children and eternal bliss are just a heart-beat away. Unfortunately in the real world, it is much harder to work out if a relationship has a future or not. Most people do not have these blinding flashes or if they've had them in the past, have been badly let down and no longer trust their own judgement. If this sounds familiar and you're not sure if your relationship is serious or you're just wasting your time, this book is for you. Marital therapist Andrew G Marshall draws on extensive research and twenty-five years' experience of working with couples to help you understand what is going on beneath the surface. He explains: - How to tell if your partner is truly into you. - How to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. - The natural rhythm of relationships and how both jumping in too soon or spending too long on hold can ruin a budding romance. - How to stop listening to other people and listen to your heart. - How to talk productively about your future. (Some of the exercises in this book have appeared in The Single Trap by Andrew G. Marshall, published by Bloomsbury)

Resolve Your Differences

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: A&C Black
ISBN: 9781408811030
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

Do you have arguments that go round and round in circles? Do you and your partner keep picking at each other over stupid things? Can things turn nasty when you disagree? Despite all the falling out, making up and promises to try harder, do you find that nothing really changes? If all this sounds familiar, it is time for a fresh approach. In this down-to-earth book, marital therapist Andrew G Marshall draws on twenty-five years of counselling couples to explain how to deal with conflict and find lasting solutions. Discover: - Why avoiding arguments stores up long-term problems. - What really drives those petty squabbles. - How to stop things spiralling out of control. - Five useful things to argue about. - The tools to have productive and positives disagreements. - How to learn and move on.

Build a Life long Love Affair

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing
ISBN: 9781408810996
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

We give our car or boiler regular services because these are things that we rely on and know it is better to fix minor glitches than wait until they become major problems. However when it comes to something as important as our relationship, we tend to close our eyes and hope for the best. In this practical book, Marital therapist Andrew G Marshall draws on twenty-five years of counselling couples to design a programme that gives your relationship the once over, tightens up any niggling problems and keeps it running smoothly. - Discover the six stages of love and their particular challenges and rewards. - Learn how to speak each other's special love language. - Boost real intimacy and keep passion alive. - Discover how small changes can have a truly big impact. - Test how many of the six skills of successful couples that you and your partner possess. (This book is based on I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You by Andrew G. Marshall, published by Bloomsbury)

My Husband Doesn t Love Me and He s Texting Someone Else

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.
ISBN: 9780992971847
Release Date: 2015-09-15
Genre: Family & Relationships

When a husband tells his wife, or she suspects, that he no longer ioves her she may feel as though her world is ending but in this positive and powerful book, marital therapist Andrew G. Marshall has a message of hope. It is possible to turn a relationship around and emerge with a stronger bond. In Part One, he explains: How to get to the bottom of why he's fallen out of love. What's really going through his mind. Why your husband has turned into a stranger. The signs that show if he's depressed and what to do about it. How to build better communication and start improving your relationship. In Part Two, he discusses how to tell if there's another woman and gauge whether she really is a threat, including: The six types of other woman, from 'a spark' to 'the love of his life'. Tailored strategies for dealing with each type. Five worst and best reactions after uncovering what's really going on. How to keep calm even when provoked. How to combat the poison that she's slipping into your relationship. When to keep fighting and when to make a tactical withdrawal

My Wife Doesn t Love Me Any More

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9781783014965
Release Date: 2012-11-16
Genre: Family & Relationships

Your wife has not only fallen out of love but, worse still, she is refusing point blank to try and fix things. She says 'she can't change her feelings', she needs 'space' and the children should know – even though it will break their hearts. You've told her how much you love her, you've begged for a second chance but everything is falling on deaf ears. The situation might seem bleak but help is at hand. Marital therapist, Andrew G Marshall has spent over twenty-five years helping couples find love again and he has a message of HOPE. You can help your wife to fall back in love, even if you're separated or suspect there's another man in the background. In this practical book, he explains: • The six worst and the six best reactions to discovering your wife doesn't love you any more. • How to get to the bottom of why she's fallen out of love. • Five things you think will save your marriage but are just pushing your wife further away. • Five strategies to instantly improve the atmosphere at home. • How to keep going in the face of disinterest and rejection. • Why most men give up too soon. • How to know when to accept the inevitable and when to keep trying.

Learn to Love Yourself Enough

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9780957429758
Release Date: 2014-09-09
Genre: Self-Help

Create a wealth of self-worth. In a black-and-white world, there are two types of people—those who love themselves too much (and walk over everybody else) or hate themselves for failing to achieve goals (and probably end up being taken advantage of by others). But, according to British marital therapist, Andrew G. Marshall, neither has a healthy perception of oneself. This is because the secret to self-esteem does not lie in the extremes of love and hate, but in the middle, in the gray area that teaches us to love ourselves just enough: enough to have love to offer others; enough to be open to receive love from others. Only when this kind of balance is created, can self-love exist. Like no other book on self-esteem ever written, Learn to Love Yourself Enough helps readers walk through life on middle ground by revealing the seven factors that, together, add up to a wealth of self-worth. Examine your relationship with your parents: Discover the six types of child-parent relationships and how to accept the legacy of your past. Find Forgiveness: Debunk the two myths about forgiveness and discover what can be gained from negative experiences. Don't let other people put you down: Recognize the five phases of projection and how understanding our own projections lead to better and happy relationships. Re-program your inner voice: Identify the three kinds of negative thinking that work together to undermine self-confidence and whether they are based on fact or just opinion. Set realistic goals: Learn how perfectionism undermines self-esteem. Re-balance yourself: Understand that problems lurk in the extremes and why the middle way is the most successful way. Conquer Fears and Setbacks: Overcome the day-to-day problems that life and other people throw at us.

I Love You But You Always Put Me Last

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Pan Macmillan
ISBN: 9780230772151
Release Date: 2013-09-12
Genre: Self-Help

The kids are happy, but how are things really between you and your partner? In modern parenting, the established wisdom is that you should prioritize the needs of your children above all else. But relationship therapist Andrew G. Marshall argues that couples who tirelessly put their children first are not only sacrificing each other’s needs and desires, but also increasing the chance of marital breakdown and creating unhappy, insecure kids. I Love You But You Always Put Me Last is about balancing your priorities so you don’t lose sight of your marriage when you become a parent. Based on twenty-five years of counselling experience, this book will help you: • Maintain intimacy and strengthen your bond of love • Work as a team and avoid negative parenting patterns • Provide good relationship role models for your children • Create a strong marriage, confident children and a happy family

Heal and Move On

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing
ISBN: 9781408811139
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

Whether your partner left or it's you who decided to end the relationship, breaking-up is painful, difficult and sometimes overwhelming. Friends and family urge you to forget the past and reach for the future. However, it is never that simple. Before you can move on, you need to understand what went wrong, mourn the loss and, most importantly, to heal. In this compassionate book, marital therapist, Andrew G Marshall takes you from hearing the bad news or making the decision to leave, through the fall-out from the split, the first steps of recovery and finally onto making a new life. He covers: - Knowing when to stop trying and accept the inevitable. - Why the break-up hurts so much. - Emotional first-aid to make it through the worst times. - The difference between looking back and learning, and becoming trapped in the past. - What helps and what hinders recovery. - Making sense of your break-up. - Helping your children cope. - Learning how to fly high again. With over 25 years' experience as a marital therapist, Marshall draws on hundreds of case studies, and provides sensible, compassionate and practical advice. (Some of the exercises in this book have appeared in I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You by Andrew G. Marshall, published by Bloomsbury)

My Wife Doesn t Love Me Anymore

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9780957429741
Release Date: 2014-10-14
Genre: Family & Relationships

Men aren't trained to take the temperature on their marriages and check if it's in good health. They tend to leave that up to their wives, so it can come as a huge shock when she tells him "I don't love you anymore." OK, he sort of knew she hadn't been happy but thought that if he kept his head down it would blow over. However, she's not saying "there's a problem we need to fix" but that "it's over and we need to tell the kids and split up." Suddenly, the bottom has dropped out of his world. He doesn't know where to turn, how to make sense of what she's saying and worse still how to start fixing the problem. His friends will offer a drink to cheer him up but no practical advice and media aimed at men is full of sport, politics and business. He's in a spin, begging for another chance and telling her "I still love you" just makes her colder and even more angry. Fortunately, internationally renowned marriage counselor Andrew G. Marshall has written My Wife Doesn't Love Me Anymore, to explain how to get your wife to fall in love with you all over again and rebuild a relationship that's more loving and fulfilling than ever. Offering techniques, strategies, and practical advice gleaned from more than thirty years of helping men manage their shock and navigate their way toward a relationship that their wife is crying out for, Marshall explains: How to figure out why she's fallen out of love Five things you think will save your relationship but should absolutely avoid What her words and actions really mean and how to use them to win her back What to do to instantly improve the atmosphere at home How to prevent past mistakes from undermining your attempts to build a better future Five pick me up tips when you're down and need to keep focused When it's time to admit it's over and what factors indicate you should still fight the good fight Whether she's told you "I don't want to work it out", "my feelings won't change", or the heart wrenching "I'm attracted to someone else", this book can help you turn it all around and provide scripts to make her open her heart again.

How Can I Ever Trust You Again

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Health Communications, Inc.
ISBN: 9780992971861
Release Date: 2016-03-01
Genre: Self-Help

There are few things in life more traumatic than discovering that your partner is having an affair. You are not only coping with the pain and anger but also the sense that your partner is a stranger. How could someone you love, and thought that you knew, treat you like this? How can you ever trust your partner again? Don't panic. Millions of ordinary men and women have trodden the same path and come out the other end with not only their love restored but a significantly stronger and better relationship. Whether you are the discoverer of the affair or whether you were discovered, Marshall offers guidance and support, and explains: The seven stages that couples move through from discovery to recovery. What makes people more vulnerable to affairs. The eight types of infidelity and how understanding your partner's affair is key to deciding whether you should stay or go. How to stop your imagination running wild and your brain from going into meltdown. Why some couples emerge stronger and why others get derailed from the recovery process. With over thirty years' experience as a marital therapist, Marshall draws on hundreds of case studies and provides practical, compassionate and sensible advice to keep your relationship alive. As he says, "It might sound strange, but you can turn this crisis from the worst thing that has happened to your relationship into one of the best.

Help Your Partner Say Yes

Author: Andrew G Marshall
Publisher: A&C Black
ISBN: 9781408811023
Release Date: 2011-02-07
Genre: Family & Relationships

Have you tried asking nicely but nothing has changed? Have you resorted to nagging, sulking or losing your temper but it has just made things worse? Has your partner said 'yes' but never quite got round to that job? Have you told yourself 'it doesn't matter' but just ended up resenting your partner? If all this sounds familiar, you are ready for an entirely new approach. In this eye-opening book, marital therapist Andrew G Marshall draws on twenty-five years of counselling couples and the latest research to explain the Art of Persuading your Partner: - Learn why people find it so hard to change and the levers to get out of a rut. - Discover how to make co-operating the norm rather than a special favour. - Stop demanding and start nudging your partner to change. - Start asking in a clear and effective way. - Discover the rewards that work. - Help your partner say: yes.

The Divorce Remedy

Author: Michele Weiner Davis
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
ISBN: 9780684873251
Release Date: 2002-09-04
Genre: Family & Relationships

In the United States, half of all marriages end in divorce. Therapist Weiner Davis offers couples the keys to acquiring the relationship and communication skills they need to bring their marriages back to life.

Can We Start Again Please

Author: Andrew G. Marshall
Publisher: Marshall Method Publishing
ISBN: 9780995540330
Release Date: 2017-06-29
Genre: Family & Relationships

Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist and author of eighteen books on turning around relationships. He has taken his thirty-years' experience and boiled everything he has learnt from three thousand clients into this short book to help you start over. Whether you want to improve what's already good or feel you are your partner are dangerously out of touch, there are tools to diagnose the real issues between you and plenty of practical advice. If your partner is in despair of your relationship ever improving or has fallen out of love, this book has been created to help you recruit him or her to try again. Can We Start Over Please? explains: • Why people fall out of love • How to get back the sexual spark • The five love languages and how to learn to speak your partner's • Twenty questions to get back that 'just met' buzz • The seven most powerful interventions to improve communication

I Love You Now What

Author: Mabel Iam
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
ISBN: 1439107645
Release Date: 2008-06-23
Genre: Self-Help

Often we enter into a relationship and say, "I love you," but then wonder, "Now what?" Feeling love for someone is not enough to keep the spark alive. Successful relationships must be based upon a solid foundation that's rooted in a continuous exchange of emotions, ideas, wills, beliefs, actions, reactions, vibrations, thoughts and objectives. Often this can be difficult and complicated to achieve, but I Love You. Now What? offers easy-to-follow methods for enjoying the benefits of a lasting relationship. Through exploring why we fall in love, reflecting upon the emotional stages we experience and examining issues that can negatively influence our relationships -- including communication, trust and sex -- Mabel reveals how love can not only survive, but thrive. Mabel's clear and thoughtful advice, her exclusive recipes for great sex and fascinating testimonials from her clients will help readers achieve the ultimate joy in life: long, lasting love.