Speak Up and Get Along

Author: Scott Cooper
Publisher: Free Spirit Publishing
ISBN: 1575428881
Release Date: 2005-06-15
Genre: Juvenile Nonfiction

What if every kid had a handy toolbox of ways to get along with others? That’s just what this book is: a collection of 21 concrete strategies kids can pull out and use to express themselves, build relationships, end arguments and fights, halt bullying, and beat unhappy feelings. Like the Mighty Might, which takes all the fun out of teasing. And the Thought Chop, which helps kids resist self-defeating thoughts. And the Squeaky Wheel, a type of persistence that gets results. And the Coin Toss, a simple way to resolve small conflicts. Each tool is clearly described, illustrated with true-to-life examples, and accompanied by dialogue and lines kids can practice and use. Stories and anecdotes show each tool in action. A terrific resource for any young person—and any adult committed to teaching social skills. Includes a note to adults. Part of the Bully Free Kids™ line

Stick Up for Yourself

Author: Gershen Kaufman
Publisher: ReadHowYouWant.com
ISBN: 9781442996731
Release Date: 2009-08-05
Genre: Education

STICK UP FOR YOURSELF! WINNER! The National Parenting Center SEAL OF APPROVAL EVERY KID'S GUIDE TO PERSONAL POWER AND POSITIVE SELF-ESTEEM. Have you ever been picked on at school, bossed around, blamed for things you didn't do, or treated unfairly? Do you sometimes feel frustrated, angry, powerless, and scared? Do wish you could stick up for yourself, but you don't know how? This book can help. In simple words and real-life examples, it shows you how to stick up for yourself with other kids (including bullies and teasers), big sisters and brothers, even parents and teachers. It tells you things you can say without putting people down, and things you can do without getting into trouble. You'll feel better about yourself, stronger inside, and more in charge of your life. You'll also learn about yourself and what's important to you. You'll find out about your feelings, needs, and dreams for the future. You'll see that you're responsible for your own behavior and your own feelings - nobody else's. You'll learn positive ways to deal with strong feelings like anger, fear, jealousy, and shame. And you'll discover simple ways to ''store'' happiness and pride for times when you need them the most. First published in 1990, this book has helped countless kids build self-esteem and be more assertive. It can give you the power to stick up for yourself, be true to yourself, and feel secure and confident inside - no matter what. Gershen Kaufman, Ph.D., is Professor Emeritus at Michigan State University and the author of several books. Lev Raphael, Ph.D., is a prize-winning author of dozens of novels and short stories. Pamela Espeland has authored and coauthored many books for children and adults.

Sticks and Stones

Author: Scott Cooper
Publisher: Harmony
ISBN: 9780812932409
Release Date: 2000
Genre: Family & Relationships

Offers advice to parents on how to teach their children to stop bullying, overcome shyness, resolve disputes, resist peer presure, and accept blame.

A Teacher s Guide to Stick Up for Yourself

Author: Gershen Kaufman
Publisher: Free Spirit Publishing
ISBN: 9781575426761
Release Date: 1992-01-15
Genre: Education

The revised and updated edition of our popular guide reinforces and expands the messages of the Stick Up for Yourself! with a step-by-step curriculum in ten easy-to-use sessions. Includes reproducible handout masters.

Partners in Play

Author: Terry Kottman
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons
ISBN: 9781119268994
Release Date: 2016-01-08
Genre: Psychology

Play therapy expert Terry Kottman and her colleague Kristin Meany-Walen provide a comprehensive update to this spirited and fun text on integrating Adlerian techniques into play therapy. Clinicians, school counselors, and students will find this to be the definitive guide for using Adlerian strategies with children to foster positive growth and effective communication with their parents and teachers. After an introduction to the basics of the approach and the concepts of Individual Psychology, the stages of Adlerian play therapy are outlined through step-by-step instructions, detailed treatment plans, an ongoing case study, and numerous vignettes. In addition to presenting up-to-date information on trends in play therapy, this latest edition emphasizes the current climate of evidence-based treatment and includes a new chapter on conducting research in play therapy. Appendixes contain useful worksheets, checklists, and resources that can be easily integrated into practice. Additional resources related to this book can be found in the ACA Online Bookstore at www.counseling.org/publications/bookstore and on Terry Kottman’s website encouragementzone.com. *Requests for digital versions from the ACA can be found on wiley.com. *To request print copies, please visit the ACA website.

No Kidding About Bullying

Author: Naomi Drew
Publisher: Free Spirit Publishing
ISBN: 9781631981814
Release Date: 2018-04-17
Genre: Education

With new lessons, an added foreword, and a revised introduction, this updated edition of No Kidding About Bullying gives educators and youth leaders hands-on activities to prevent bullying in schools and help kids in grades 3–6 cope with the effects of bullying when it does occur. Based on a nationwide survey of more than 2,000 students and teachers, this flexible resource can be used alone or as a complement to anti-bullying and character education programs already in place. Each of the 126 lessons may be completed in 20 minutes or less and include games, role-plays, group discussions, art projects, and language arts exercises that build respect, empathy, and kindness. Digital content includes student handouts from the book and bonus materials.

Learning to Be a Good Friend

Author: Christine A Adams
Publisher: Open Road Media
ISBN: 9781497682962
Release Date: 2014-09-02
Genre: Self-Help

Learning to Be a Good Friend allows adults to show kids how to cultivate friendship. It discusses behaviors that foster friendships, as well as those that drive friends away. It illustrates the pitfalls of peer pressure, and what to do when you can’t find a friend or have lost your best friend.

Children s Friendship Training

Author: Fred D. Frankel
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 9781135451516
Release Date: 2013-05-13
Genre: Psychology

First published in 2003. Routledge is an imprint of Taylor & Francis, an informa company.

Social Rules for Kids

Author: Susan Diamond
Publisher: AAPC Publishing
ISBN: 1934575844
Release Date: 2011
Genre: Education

Many parents are not sure of what to say and do to help their children improve their social interactions. Social Rules for Kids - The Top 100 Social Rules Kids Need to Succeed helps open the door of communication between parent and child by addressing 100 social rules for home, school, and the community. Using simple, easy-to- follow rules covering topics such as body language, manners, feelings and more, this book aims to make student's lives easier and more successful by outlining specific ways to interact with others on a daily basis.

The Unwritten Rules of Friendship

Author: Natalie Madorsky Elman
Publisher: Little, Brown
ISBN: 9780316055833
Release Date: 2008-12-21
Genre: Family & Relationships

This practical and compassionate handbook helps parents sharpen any child's social skills by identifying the "unwritten rules" that govern all relationships.

The Tortoise and the Hairpiece

Author: Don M. Winn
Publisher: BookBaby
ISBN: 9781937615017
Release Date: 2009-09-10
Genre: Juvenile Fiction

The Tortoise and the Hairpiece is the story of a lonely young tortoise named Jake who is embarrassed by his bald head. Even though other animals invite him to play, he keeps to himself, positive that nobody will really want to be his friend because he looks different. When he tries to look like everyone else, it doesn’t quite work the way he planned. After getting some help from a local misguided buzzard and a wise owl, he learns that everyone is best at being themselves and that he doesn’t need to try to be someone else or look like someone else just to make friends. True friends care about Jake for who he is inside and that’s what makes him special.

Bullies to Buddies

Author: Izzy Kalman
Publisher:
ISBN: 0970648219
Release Date: 2005-01-01
Genre: Juvenile Nonfiction

Discusses the aggressive behavior known as bullying, covering causes, types of bullying, and ways to respond to a bully.

Cool Calm and Confident

Author: Lisa M. Schab
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
ISBN: 1608824780
Release Date: 2009-04-02
Genre: Juvenile Nonfiction

Self-assured, assertive kids are not only less likely to be picked on by their peers, they're also less likely to bully others. But it's not always easy for children to find a healthy middle ground between passivity and aggression. If your child is a frequent target for bullies, or has begun to tease and take advantage of other kids, the easy and effective activities in Cool, Calm, and Confident can help. These simple exercises help children stand up for themselves without coming across as aggressive, learn to be both kind and assertive, and develop self-confidence and a positive self-image. Using this workbook is an easy and effective way to instill self-esteem in both passive and aggressive children-a strength that will prove invaluable in childhood, in their teenage years, and throughout their lives. Help children to: Learn the difference between passive, aggressive, and assertive behavior; behave in ways that discourage teasing; understand their rights and stand up for themselves; stay calm and learn skills for managing anger; and make real and lasting friendships.

Being Me

Author: Wendy L. Moss
Publisher:
ISBN: 1433808838
Release Date: 2010-11-01
Genre: Juvenile Nonfiction

Offers ways to explore your strengths and feel more confident in school, with your friends, and when facing life's other challenges.

Good Friends are Hard to Find

Author: Fred H. Frankel
Publisher: Perspective Pub
ISBN: 096220367X
Release Date: 1996-01-01
Genre: Family & Relationships

Suggests ways in which parents can help children make and maintain friendships, including scheduling one-on-one play dates, encouraging good behavior, and overcoming hyperactivity.