Author: Eric Berne
Publisher: Penguin UK
Release Date: 1973-07-26
Do you realise you, and all the people you know, play games? All the time? Sexual games, marital games, complex games that you’re not even aware of as you go about your usual life? You might play games like ‘Alcoholic’ or ‘The Frigid Woman' at weekends, or perhaps 'Ain't it awful' or ‘Kick me’ while you’re at work. First published in the 1960s and recognized as a classic work of its kind by professionals, the bestselling ‘Games People Play’ is also an accessible and fascinating read. It is a wise, original, witty and very sensible analysis of the games we play in order to live with one another – and with ourselves.
Transactional Analysis delineates three observable ego-states (Parent, Adult, and Child) as the basis for the content and quality of interpersonal communication. "Happy childhood" notwithstanding, says Harris, most of us are living out the Not ok feelings of a defenseless child, dependent on ok others (parents) for stroking and caring. At some stage early in our lives we adopt a "position" about ourselves and others that determines how we feel about everything we do. And for a huge portion of the population, that position is "I'm Not OK -- You're OK." This negative "life position," shared by successful and unsuccessful people alike, contaminates our rational Adult capabilities, leaving us vulnerable to inappropriate emotional reactions of our Child and uncritically learned behavior programmed into our Parent. By exploring the structure of our personalities and understanding old decisions, Harris believes we can find the freedom to change our lives.
This book introduces a new selling method that is based on the fundamentals of solution-focus, a counseling approach originally developed and applied in psychotherapy. It describes the challenges that salespeople and their marketing organizations face today and why their current selling methods no longer suffice. It continues to elaborate on how solution-focused attitudes, processes, and tools can be used to overcome these challenges, to increase advisory quality, and to eventually make higher sales.This book is directed toward salespeople of all industries who want to gain a competitive advantage and increase their success in business. Its content also relates to therapists, coaches, and managers who want to gain a new perspective in solution-focused management.
Annotation Social postmodernism and systematic theology can be considered the new pair in some of the most creative discussions on the future of theological method on a global scale. Both in the academy and in the public square, as well as in the manifold local and pastoral moments of ministry and community social activism, the social, the postmodern, and the theological intermingle in engaging and border-crossing ways. The Community of the Weak presents a new kind of fundamental theology with a postmodern touch, using jazz as a metaphor, writing ethnographically out of the personal windows of lived experiences, combining fragments of autobiography with theological reconstruction. A comparative perspective on North American and European developments in contemporary systematic theology serves as a hermeneutical horizon to juxtapose two continents in their very different contexts. The author proposes a systematic and fundamental theology that is more jazzy, global, and narrative, deeply embedded in pastoral ministry to tell its postmodern story. Book jacket.
Interviews mit Kindern und Jugendlichen müssen in besonderer Weise vorbereitet und durchgeführt werden. Vor allem müssen Interviewleiterinnen und -leiter ihr Handeln im Kontext kommunikativer und pädagogischer Verläufe begreifen. Die konzentrierte Einführung in Grundlagenwissen und Fragetechniken bietet Einblicke in Musterverläufe von Interviews mit Kindern und Jugendlichen und markiert die Besonderheit dieser Zielgruppe: spezielle Strukturelemente und Verfahren des Interviews werden entsprechend präzisiert. Zusammen mit Hinweisen auf Fragefehler und zum Einsatz auf Medien enthält dieses Lehrbuch alles, was man zur richtigen Interviewführung mit Kindern braucht.
Liebe ist oft unübersichtlich - das wissen schon Märchen und Mythen. Sie helfen, sich im richtigen Leben gut zurecht zu finden. Sie und Er haben oft unterschiedliche Sehnsüchte. Sie miteinander in Einklang zu bringen, darauf kommt es an. Hans Jellouschek zeigt Wege in eine gute Paarbeziehung - Märchen und Mythen laden dazu ein, den Weg ins Zentrum der je eigenen Liebe zu finden.